Friday, December 30, 2011

Our Holidays in Pics

Decorating the tree

One of the many places we found Elfred


Playing with cousins in Michigan

Poor Elfred!  We hoped he didn't think the reindeer were real!

Elfred hanging off the Advent Calendar

Elfred on the wreath

Elfred wanting to be a  part of the centrepiece

The Good Lovelies, Dublin United Church Dec 21, 2011

Our walk in the woods







Sebastian's note from Santa

This is the only present Sebastian asked for.  A Jack-in-the-Box!

Our family (don't mind the hands on the hip.  It's an inside joke for us...)

Our backyard at night

Finally snow!!!

Four Generations


Thursday, December 29, 2011

Our Holidays

I have been attempting to update our blog for the past few nights and keep getting distracted, so hopefully tonight will be the night!  We have had such a wonderful holiday that it's hard to know exactly where to start, however, I must start somewhere!  So, I'm going to try to do a quick review of our holiday and  what we've been up to, and I'll  probably add  pictures later as we have a lot!

We started the season in early December when we went to get our tree.  Every year since moving we've gotten a live tree and this year wasn't any different, however this year, the tree did not fall on me, which is always a good sign!

We took our time decorating the house and luckily I remembered to get the Advent Calendar out and filled with Hershey Kisses and ready for when Sebastian returned home from school on the 1st.  As Sebastian has gotten older each year I've noticed how much more of a great little helper he is with decorating the house.  When he first started decorating the tree when he was 2 he was only given the ornaments that would not break, but now at 5 he's able to handle the breakables and is also able to decorate more of the tree, which is a lot of fun.  He also helped me figure out where to put things around the house and as he told me at one point, "You know, it's not always about where you want to put things Mommy!"  After explaining that I've been doing this for years without any input and that I tend to be a control freak (Shhh!  Don't tell anyone!) Sebastian seemed to understand that he had to gently guide me with his ideas!   Needless to say, it was really nice sharing the time it took to decorate the house with him and I was also reminded that things don't need  to be "perfect" to be beautiful!

This year Elfred was also introduced into our home.  If you are familiar with the Elf on the Shelf, then you will know all about Elfred our little house Elf.  Elfred came to visit us on the 1st of December and he went back to the North Pole with Santa on Christmas Eve.  Although it was nice having Elfred hanging out with us,  with us trying to figure out where he was every morning, he really wasn't here to tell Santa whether Sebastian had been naughty or nice.  For one, I don't agree with using such things as Elves to put fear into children to behave but secondly, Sebastian isn't the type of kid who needs such methods of social control.  He genuinely is a good kid, despite by mommy bias!

I was also smart this year and purchased gifts throughout the year so there was no mad scrambles to the mall nor the need for last minute wrapping so our days leading up to the holidays were quite relaxing as everything was done.  Jamie, Nonee and I attended Sebastian's Holiday concert on Tuesday December 20th and as a treat, as the children at Sebastian's school collected and donated 40 boxes of food to the local food bank, Sebastian was able to wear his pajama's to school on the Thursday.

As Sebastian didn't have school on the 23rd and Jamie was off we spent the day playing, watching Christmas specials and going for a hike in the woods behind our house.  It took us about an hour to do a loop and it was a nice walk, albeit cold, with the ground lightly dusted with snow.  We saw lots of deer prints, but no deer.

Christmas Eve was spent with Sebastian's Nonee & Papa at our house and we were able to Skype with Aunt Becky in B.C., which was an extra special treat as she did not come home this year for Christmas.  We spent the evening grazing on food, being merry and Sebastian went to bed excited with the prospect of Santa coming in the night.

The next morning Sebastian and I tip toed downstairs to see if Santa had been here and he had!  Santa left Sebastian a note thanking him for the cookies and milk and Elfred left Sebastian a note too saying good-bye and reminding him that he may be back next year.  Sebastian waited patiently for his Nonee and Papa to arrive before we opened our gifts and enjoyed a lovely breakfast of Overnight Raspberry French Toast.  We then relaxed for a couple of hours before heading over to Nonee and Papa's for Christmas dinner with the family.

The following day Uncle Danny came for a visit and Sebastian excitedly showed him his gifts.  It was nice having Uncle Danny over for a sleep over and we're always sad to see him leave as he is so much fun to have around.

We spent the rest of Boxing Day playing with Sebastian's new toys and we realized, when we went out today, that we hadn't left the house since Boxing Day!  However, we're not complaining as we felt nestled and cozy in our house playing a number of games, such as table top soccer, Cars 2 Monopoly, Pinball, Guess Who and Cadoo as well as completing a number of puzzles, Lego sets and creating Spirograph and Shrinky-Dink artwork. It's really nice seeing that 3 days later Sebastian is still getting a lot of enjoyment out of his gifts!

And as yesterday marked our first real snow of the season we headed outside into the backyard and played in the snow for a bit.  Today, with the snow still falling, we headed downtown for lunch and then went ice skating at the new Market Square.  This was the first time the 3 of us have been skating together and it was so nice seeing Sebastian's skating lessons pay off - man is he fast!  After we were done we got a treat at B-Chocolate and then headed to Planet Bean for some hot cocoa. It was definitely a great way to spend the day and I think we are all going to be sad when Jamie has to return to work next week!  As much as Sebastian and I keep ourselves busy during our days, there is something so special about the 3 of us spending so much quality time together that it's almost magical.  It definitely makes me appreciate all that we have.

Tomorrow we are going to do exactly what we've been doing all week... staying in our pj's until mid-morning, playing games and playing in the snow.  We'll add Skyping with Grandpa to the list as it's his birthday tomorrow, but other than that, we'll do exactly what we've been doing all week.  Not a bad way at all to spend the holidays!

Hoping everyone has had magical moments throughout the holidays!
Kim

Thursday, December 22, 2011

Saturday, December 3, 2011

The Sweetness of his Soul

Ever since I can remember Sebastian has been a very sensitive and intuitive child and I hope as he gets older we will be able to continue to nurture him so that he grows up to be a sensitive and intuitive adult.

It's hard for people who don't see him on a regular basis to see this side of his personality so I wanted to write about something that happened earlier today that demonstrates the sweetness of his soul....

Today was Sebastian's Great-Nana's birthday.  If she was still here with us we would have been celebrating her 85th birthday today (Sebastian and her were 80 years apart).  Well we have a photo album of Nana sitting on our one side table.  It's been there since her death and it's filled with 'memories' of Nana.

Well Sebastian has not paid much attention to this album since Nana's death last September and I have no memory of him ever actually looking at it.  Today he picked up the photo album and brought it over to me on the couch and said, "Let's remember Nana and talk about her memory."

I don't know if it was intuition or just consequence, and it doesn't really matter, as Sebastian was not told what today was.  What mattered was just how sweet and innocent it was for Sebastian to want to sit down with me to look at the pictures of his Great-Nana on the day of her birth.  We sat there together and looked at her pictures and remembered our loving Nana. And as I've said to Sebastian in the past, a person is never truly gone as long as they remain in our hearts and I'm so thankful that Sebastian still holds his Nana in his heart.